Fingering is the act of touching the vulva (usually the clitoris) or the vagina and sometimes the anus for the purpose of sexual stimulation with the fingers. It is a common form of foreplay [1] [2] or mutual masturbation. Tips for both vulvas and butts.Fingering is a ubiquitous sex move, but not one that's often discussed. At least, that's surely the case in American sex education classes. Some states don't require sex ed to be medically accurate, while others don't require sex ed at all. Given this lack, it's understandable if you have questions about fingering. Here are tips on how to finger your partner, according to two sex experts. How to communicate when fingering First and foremost: Talk to your ... “Fingering” is a slightly adolescent term for what can be a wonderful thing – stimulating the vagina from the inside. Fingering can be an incredibly pleasurable, orgasmic experience when done correctly. However, when done poorly, it can be a disaster. To avoid these mishaps and to enhance your skills, we've compiled expert tips to guide you on this intimate journey.